Wednesday, October 22, 2008

The bad boy always gets the girl..nah!


Its only 2 days to my KL trip and about 4 days till i meet them awesome people,I am seriously thrilled and cannot wait! So yeap, im back to blog properly again! Well im sure you all have heard of the phrase '' the bad boys always gets the girls '' and why is that so? Well, sometimes it tends to be true.Im sure every girl at one point of their life would have had a crush on a bad boy. Theres just something about bad boys that attracts girls in general.

I feel that we girls are attracted to bad boys, but we do not treat them as boyfriend material. In my point of view. We actually do like nice guys! If not why do girls always complain that they '' cant seem to find any nice guys '' or '' why are all the nice guys taken ''. There are pros and cons to this as well.

Perhaps we also like to have a sense of security and some girls dont seem to have that a lot with nice boys. Nice boys usually end up calm and shy or just laid back. They wouldnt really have the balls to do anything if a guy walks by and grabs your ass! True? But one of those bad boys will go right after them and we girls love to be protected.

But i feel that why girls tend to like bad boys is because they want to be 'The One' to change that boy. Thats when you really know that you love someone and that he loves you. If they can change for you. But it usually dosent happen. Yes maybe in movies. hahah but not reality.

In the end, i feel that it is usually the good ones that ends up with the girl ! Because when you love someone, you will love him for who he is. laidback, intimidated, shy or not. you will overlook his flaws and still come to love him. Yes, a badboy gives us quite a challenge and is exciting and unpredictable. But in the end, Nobody can sustain a serious relationship, that is always exciting or unpredictable. Personally, i wouldnt mind a mix of both. *wink . haha but, i've seen my fair shair of bad boys and jerks. I would rather a nice boy. And i found mine already! haha

23 comments:

Yi Ling said...

WOOTS. you found yours. haha! nice guys are pretty rare. but they still exist! :D :D :D whee~

Cathy said...

Darling, yes, you have found yours..and i am happy for you too..can't wait to see you on sunday!!=)

Hurley said...

aw...so sweet!

Jordan said...

Bad girls like nice boys!

You have a point actually. Bad boy likes nice gals. My gf is nice, I'm what again?

Adrian Lim said...

Lullll

Ur post made me understand one of me fren even bettah.

well, i hope to think so for the least XD

newaysss interesting entry!

cheers!

Wee Kiat said...

Congrats for finding your nice guy!

Hmm...seems like your post has something to do with my blog.

www.badboysdocry.blogspot.com

BLue said...

waliao, haven't go KL already forget me... When you back here might donno who am I liao T_T

Nicki said...

Girls are attracted to bad boys cause they have something the nice boys don't... and that is Confidence and Charm.

When a guy is outstanding obviously we look at him more than the ones hiding in the shadows right?

Ron Jerem Lee said...

reason is obvious - good boy gets tipu by bad boy eventually. so get a good boy later also no $, so might as well get the one that can get more and more $

~Wong~ said...

The oni reason is nice guys aren't interesting. It's not about good or bad guys, it's about guys who are interesting. The same goes for opposite sex, thats why they also thought guys like bad girls.

Well, I'm lazy to elaborat more, since I've posted on it aeons ago. :P

Steven said...

this is somewhat a little educative. to guys especially. haha. good post :)

Mike said...

if following back the
nice girl-bad guys
not so good girl-nice guys

then u can see the looks part as well

those not so good looking guys with the pretty girls, those good looking guys are normally with those nt so pretty girls... =p rarely u see both also are gorgaous... other than Celebs...

u have found urs, good for u, and wish u luck..
i have yet to meet my miss. Right yet...

"u r too good, i not fit to have u" :'(

ilovebudu said...

i want too...

Ripalo Cal said...

omg....miss lovie guru is on the run again. =)

yeah...i do agree on your post this time. XD.

If you forgot, i disagreed that LDR can work.

Anyway...my new post...if you're a girl, pls read.

The topic doesn't mean anything btw.

http://innit.nuffnang.com/view.php?id=40719

=chuanguan= said...

haha.i am bad..y gals dun pick on me..y? love guru..can explain? muahahhaa

Venessa ♥♥ said...

Chuanguan, cos u got girlfriend edi ==

Arth Akal said...

i was being dubbed a 'bad boy' by too many people. once as a comparisson to kenny sia himself -_-'

not good :(

http://www.kennysia.com/archives/2007/10/is_it_true_that.php

Venessa ♥♥ said...

Arth: hahah and like he said, you get all the chicks! lol

Jeffro said...

Ooo.. Someone's in KL? Cool..

- i.r.v.i.n.e - said...

i must be a bad boy then! lol

PehHwa said...

so loving =)

Vin Tsen said...

Well, there's a saying in mandarin - "If a guy ain't bad, the girl won't like"

=D

lovie said...

Nice guy or bad guy, I think as long as he loves you and cares for you enough, that's perfect enough right?

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